pdmjo : Arrhh......... a new-bee into the mystic arts of transistors - enjoy the learning journey!!
So.... here's the thing about this stuff - my picture above was thieved from VW's wiring diagrams (hopefully without infringing copyright). This means that whilst the diagram is an accurate reflection of how different components are "wired" together - the diagram says absolutely nothing about why the separate bits are wired in this manner!
I'm not aware of any VW information related to MQB platform cars (like your mk7) that exposes the internal circuitry of their components. In general, this information is sequestered from the public gaze and it's normally only available to the wizened troglodytes that labor feverishly in the VW dungeons (meaning of course that this information is proprietary knowledge)!!
This notwithstanding, for folks here with a background in control-system theory (after-all, these are "control" modules, so their design is based-on a set of well established principles), or for someone with an interest for things electronic - it's possible to intuit how stuff works!!
So, with the caveat that what follows is a guess that is prone to wild excursions of technical fantasy and gross errors - maybe consider the following:
At it's essence, a control module like the airbag module is a simple device that gathers data from the outside world and based on this information, it makes decisions. It ain't any more complex than this at a fundamental level.
If I extrapolate my previous reductive sentence, a module has just 2 x kinds of connections to the outside world which are known as "inputs" and "outputs". The other important thing about control modules is something called "feedback" - but I won't complicate matters by talking about this (except to introduce the concept)!
For the purpose of your question, it's clear that the passenger sensor (let's call this "G554") falls into the category of a module "input". It senses when a passenger is seated and it likely works by changing the status of switch in the seat via a human type weight.
Now in this case, G554 is most definitely not a simple switch because a simple switch has a status of ON, or OFF. For reasons that I suspect are safety related, the design engineers @ VW appear to have made the passenger sensor more discriminating than a simple ON/OFF status change. Instead, the decision circuits in the airbag module appear to look for a preset resistance (rather than a resistance of either zero, or infinity). In fact, I suspect that the internal module circuit looks for a defined electrical current, or a set voltage level that is determined by the preset resistance - in this case between module pin#34 and earth (see my diagram)!
Again without knowing anything about the internal module design, I suspect that module pin#34 is an open collector/emitter circuit as you infer (these pins normally use these type of transistor circuits). As shown in my diagram, the wire that connects to this pin leaves the module and it meanders to the outside world and eventually it terminates onto pin #2 of G554.
So, think about your transistor "potential overload" concern. With G554 installed, there is a realistic chance in a crash that the passenger sensor wire between the airbag module and G554 will either open circuit, or it may be shorted to earth somewhere in the wiring loom! It would be criminally negligent for the design engineers at VW to allow the airbag module to fail if this happens.
Almost without exception, input (and output) pins on modern control modules are overload-proof - part of the circuit design is invariably a load-sensing facility that deals with these type of outside-world events. I would be extremely surprised if this didn't happen on the passenger sensor pin of an airbag module.
Finally - I reiterate again (tautology intended) that I'm not recommending that anyone modifies an airbag module because of the resultant safety issues
Don